It’s been a tough few days.
My mental strength has been pushed to its limits again. Being told that I was selfish when I was following protocol and knowing that I had to care for my own family, was painful. On the other hand, I was also told that I was weak for not able to fight for my own rights against by my family side.
No matter what I did or did not do, I was wrong and blamed for it. I was beyond torn.
Both sides said I had spoiled the other side by letting them step over my boundaries. That I was causing trouble for everyone.
It’s true that everyone is replaceable.
So, I will do the best I can….for now….
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Whatever you decided on doing at that moment, it was the most suitable decision that you made in that situation. It was the best choice. Do your best to hold your space and see other people’s reaction or response to you as something they need your compassion on. You got this!
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Thank you! It’s sad that time and time again, people expect me to bend to their will without caring about my own personal welfare. And when I voice that, I am selfish….
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Sometimes or most of the time we cannot please everyone! There will always be a side that will judge us!
What we can do is do our best for the rest…let it be…You can do it!
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Stay strong
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Some people do not like boundaries. I’ve been in the spot of learning that like learning running face first into a brick wall hurts. It’s self care and eventually people can see that because you were able to do it then they can too ❤️
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True, some people hate boundaries and just because they are ok for somethings, they expect you to be ok too!
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Sending a hug, sounds like you need one. You do you!
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Thank you 😊
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Hugs, Momma! I am sorry you are going through a hard time but glad to see you are taking a step back. You have to know when to say when! xoxo
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Yeah…it’s been a tough decade for me… people think they can step all over me …
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xoxo
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Such a simple quote, yet so powerful! Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you 😊
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Wishing you fortitude! Hang in there! 👍
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Don’t be too hard on yourself. Give yourself Grace and let the Holy Spirit guide you through this fix – beyond the voices! ❤
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Thank you 😊
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❤
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